Ada sedikit semangat Kartini sih, tapi ini bukan soal feminisme atau gimana kok :D Ini lebih ngajarin supaya kita lebih kuat dan semangat Kartini itu kan adalah semangat untuk ngebuat kita jadi lebih kuat :) Dan ga cuman untuk para cewe. Para cowo juga bisa ikutan :)
Dan satu lagi ini, bisa dijadikan bahan pemikiran untuk para cewe. Dan para cowo untuk berusaha lebih baik lagi untuk mendapatkan wanita yang benar-benar sepadan karena, hey, kita ga akan mau dapet hal yang setengah-setengah kan? How could you expect to have full result if you only gave half of your efforts? ;)To those who are…. single
Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you lease expect it. Love can make you happy but often it hurts, but love’s only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it. So take your time and choose the best.
To those who are…. not so single
Love isn’t about becoming somebody else’s “perfect person”. It’s about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.
To those who are…. playboy/girl type
Never say “I love you” if you don’t care. Never talk about feelings if they aren’t there. Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Never look in the eye when all you do is lie. The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is to let her fall in love when he doesn’t intend to catch her fall and vice versa…
HEAR HEAR! Been in the position where I have to cry because of somebody's act. Anyway, thank you for making me stronger and no, it's not a sarcasm. - Kappa
To those who are…. married
Love is not about “it’s your fault”, but it’s about “I’m sorry”. Not about “where are you”, but “I’m right here”. Not “how could you” but “I understand”. Not “I wish you were here” but “I’m thankful you are”.
To those who are…. engaged
The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how good you are for each other.
To those who are…. heartbroken
Heart breaks as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks, but to learn from them.
To those who are…. naive
How to be in love: Fall but don’t stumble, be consistent but not to persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, and get hurt but never keep the pain.
To those who are…. possessive
It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else, but it’s more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.
To those who are…. afraid to confess
Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.
To those who are…. still holding on
A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love, only to find out in the end it was never meant to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn’t worth it. If he/she isn’t worth it now, he/she’s not going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now. Let go.
In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question:
What kind of man are you looking for?
She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking,
"Do you really want to know?"
Reluctantly, he said, "Yes."
She began to expound.
"As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what can you do for me that I can’t do for myself? I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man.. or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask, ‘What can you bring to the table?’"
The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money.
She quickly corrected his thought and stated,
"I am not referring to money. I need something more. I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life."
He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to explain. She said,
"I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don’t need a simple-minded man. I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don’t need to be unequally yoked.. Believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster."
"I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don’t need a financial burden."
"I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded."
"I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a strong man."
"I need a man who is family-oriented. One who can be the leader and provider to the lives entrusted to him by God."
"I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn’t taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive.. He just has to be worthy."
"And by the way, I am not looking for him.. He will find me. He will recognize himself in me. Hey may not be able to explain the connection, but he will always be drawn to me. God made woman to be a help-mate for man. I can’t help a man if he can’t help himself."
When she finished her spill, she looked at him.
He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, "You are asking a lot."
She replied, "I’m worth a lot."
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